We Can't be Afraid of Change - Letting Go

Perception is all in the mind, so long as you know you have everything you want in that pond there is no need to tread deeper waters. Appreciate what you have.

We Can't be Afraid of Change - Letting Go

This is the very idea that has the dating scene so screwed up right now. If you are happy with the one you're with, why look for something better or even consider that something's better out there? Seriously. This is the very reason why men play with women these days. They date and allow things to progress under the ruse of being interested when all the while, they're still looking for 'something better'. What's so wrong about being happy with the one you're with now? It's like bees jumping from flower to flower. If we keep moving in this direction, marriage will become obsolete.

It relates to people who are in a relationship out of comfort but aren't really happy. So they cheat and cheat or think about it. The fear of looking for someone they actually have chemistry with scares them. We don't have to be tied down to one person. If you were so happy with them your mind wouldn't be wondering. You cant force it to fit one it just doesn't.

There is no such thing as the "perfect mate" so I'm not buying this malarkey to keep looking for something better. And you'll be looking for a long time if you do! I think if you can find someone that shows potential (shares your interests, values and goals) then you need to stick with that person and invest the time in growing the relationship into one that's healthy and fulfilling. Sadly, people have no patience or loyalty anymore.